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50 things that 2020 taught me ♡


What a crazy year right? Although challenging it has been a very fruitful year for me. With all of the setbacks I've grown a lot spiritually. With all of the disappointments I've learned to trust and rely on God more. In the loneliest of moments, I found that Jesus is truly the greatest comforter.

Being forced to spend more time alone than normal I've also learned a lot about myself. This was a year of growth and preparation. I strongly believe that God doesn't put us through the fire without a purpose in doing so. So I'm excited to see what 2021 will bring. 

With that being said, I decided to share a few things that I've learned about life and myself this year ♡

1. Fear is a choice. 

2. "Home" is where the heart is.
3. I enjoy peace and tranquility.
4. Too much of anything is not good for me.
5. God is still at work.
6. It's okay to just be.
7. Financial freedom is a priority, not a burden.
8. Friendships evolve/change and that's okay.
9. I will grow through whatever life throws at me.
10. Appreciating time and the little things is vital.
11. Taking some time for myself is not selfish.
12. Setting boundaries is healthy and necessary.
13. Its okay to feel, cry, be happy, and be human.
14. Jesus is the greatest friend, companion and provider.
15. Life is really short, tomorrow isn't promised.
16. Family/friends are very important and worth fighting for.
17. Peace is worth fighting for.
18. Seasons always change.
19. I can adapt to new situations if I'm willing.
20. Prayer is important. Pray always!
21. There is always something to be thankful for.
22. Experiencing and appreciating Gods blessings is not sinful. 
23. Love is a scary thing but worth it.
24. God is in the details and knows all.
25. I don't always have to be strong.
26. I need to let people be there for me.
27. Its okay to not be okay all the time.
28. The greatest gift is salvation.
29. Things can't buy happiness.
30. Memories are more important than things.
31. Forgive even though the apology may never come.
32. Learn to accept grace, love and forgiveness.
33. I am not my past.
34. Trusting God is very hard but necessary.
35. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
36. Loving others even from a distance is okay.
37. Asking for help is okay.
38. Slowing down and just listening is important.
39. Growth is painful but so beautiful.
40. Bad habits can be broken.
41. The mind is powerful but submissive to whatever you feed it.
42. God is undoubtedly good.
43. Living for God is never in vain.
44. It is not my responsibility to change people.
45. Quality is more important than quantity.
46. Sanctification is a journey not a marathon.
47. I can enjoy being single and desire marriage simultaneously.
48. I dont need to live up to people's expectations of me.
49. Every action doesnt require a reaction out of me.
50. Jesus is always the answer.


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